Night terrors - help please!?

I'm so sorry. Men can be such jerks. I think the best thing for you to do would be to relax your mind more and tell your body that everything's going to be okay. A strong mind is the key to all health. Be confident and don't let men scare you because you are so strong and women can change the world. See a shrink, if you haven't already. The important thing is not to feel scared or hurt inside if you can help it. And, yes, I think your behavior as a child explain the reasons behind the night terrors rather than a food allergy. But know that you are still a strong woman.